Write what you’d want each person to hear: who you hope keeps which items, what memories you want them to hold onto, what you hope they let go of.
Less “formal letter from a lawyer,” more “honest note sent across time.”
“Something you want to leave for a loved one after death?”
LastDeathWish.com is about the things you’d quietly want honored when you’re gone — not just money or documents, but wishes: who keeps what, how you’d like to be remembered, what you hope they do next.
This is long-term planning and love, similar to writing a will or keeping important papers together. It’s not about rushing anything or giving up — it’s about leaving a trail of clarity and care for later.
What this is
Wills, lawyers, and paperwork handle who gets what on paper. LastDeathWish is the softer layer beneath all of that — the part where you say “this is what I’d hope you do” in your own words.
Write what you’d want each person to hear: who you hope keeps which items, what memories you want them to hold onto, what you hope they let go of.
Less “formal letter from a lawyer,” more “honest note sent across time.”
Call out the small things that matter: recipes, playlists, inside jokes, that one old hoodie, the story behind a ring. The pieces that carry you forward.
The little details often mean more than the big assets.
Share hopes, not demands: where you’d like to be remembered, what traditions you’d love them to keep, and permission to live fully after the grief.
It’s guidance, not control. They still get to choose — knowing what you would’ve wanted.
How it could work
The product is still in private beta, but the idea is simple: one secure place to collect the wishes you’d want honored, and a careful way of sharing them only when the time is truly right.
When beta opens, you’ll create an account that isn’t searchable or public. From there, you’ll add the people you might one day want to leave a wish for.
Start with a single note: who you want to keep what, what you hope they do with certain things, what you’d love them to remember. Save drafts, revisit, change your mind. There’s no rush.
The plan is to let you set rules per note — who it’s for, who can help deliver it, and under what conditions it should be opened or shown.
You stay in control while you’re here. Your words stay protected when you’re not.
Questions & boundaries
Talking about wishes after death can feel intense or strange. That’s a normal reaction. The point here is simple: less confusion for the people you love, and more certainty about what you hoped for.
No. LastDeathWish is about long-range planning — like a will, a folder of important papers, or instructions for your home. It’s for “someday, whenever that is,” not for right now.
It shouldn’t. Legal questions should go through a lawyer or official documents in your country or state. LastDeathWish is more human: wishes, stories, and guidance that live alongside those formal plans.
The intent is for this to be a private tool, not a social network. No browsing by strangers, no public profile. Your wishes are tied to the recipients you choose, not to search results.
While you’re alive, you’ll be able to edit, pause, or delete any wish. You’re allowed to update your feelings as life changes — that’s part of the point.